“Why is it that God is so quick to give other’s the desires of their heart, but yet at the same time, hes so quick to hand out ‘no's’ to others?”

Just because Allah gives you a handful of “no's” doesnt mean that hes never going to say yes. Because when you start to believe that you're unworthy and that you dont matter and that nobody will ever feel that way about you, you're letting negativity conquers you. He wants you to lean on Him and not worry about the storm. Allah allows things to break you down so that He can build you up into everything He wants you to be. Maybe Allah is calling you to a life of singleness to serve Him. Maybe its in His plan for you to wait because He has that perfect person for you to spend the rest of your life with. The perfect person that will show you what it means to love and serve Him. Maybe Hes asking you to wait because He knows that getting married and having kids right now will end up in heartbreak and He doesnt want that for you. Maybe Hes making you wait because he wants to introduce you to the person that fits your heart and soul like a glove so that you dont settle for anyone thats unworthy of you.

Life happens. Heartbreak happens. But maybe, thats the beauty of it. Maybe its supposed to happen to bring us closer to Him. Life would be boring without an adventure. If things were supposed to happen exactly the way we've dreamed, then there wouldnt be any surprises.